FOR COUPLES IN SEATTLE & SURROUNDING AREAS & WASHINGTON STATE

In-Person & Online Couples Therapy and Sex Therapy

Couple Therapy and Sex Therapy

Do you and your partner struggle with issues such as desire discrepancy, sexual performance, orgasm, or issues of boredom and emotional disconnect? Do you experience age-related changes that impact desire, arousal, pleasure, or your confidence? I will assist you in developing new ways of communicating so that you can safely share your needs, desires, and fantasies and have them satisfied.

Comprehensive Couples + Sex Therapy in Seattle

Couples often hope emotional closeness alone will naturally strengthen their intimate life, but many discover that affection and communication do not always resolve tension around physical connection. Sexual intimacy shapes the identity of a romantic partnership, and when neglected, both partners feel the strain. Couples therapy in Seattle through Pleasure Matters treats emotional and physical closeness as interconnected. I guide couples through these areas with clarity and care so they feel supported and understood throughout the process.

Sex Therapy Can Help you If:

• You and your partner experience conflicts over how frequently to have sex.

• You and your partner experience conflicts over the type of sexual activity that is preferred or rejected by one partner.

• You experience shame and difficulty communicating your needs and preferences with your partner.

• You experience a lack of desire for sex or feel pressured by your partner to have sex.

• You have a difficulty achieving orgasm with or without a partner.

• You experience anxiety-related performance issues like erectile dysfunction, delayed ejaculation, etc.

• You struggle due to age-related changes in sexual desire and performance

• You experience the negative Affects of perimenopause and menopause on your sexuality and relationship.

• You or your partner struggles with issues related to pornography or compulsive sexual behaviors and acting out.

• You have non-normative sexual needs like kink, etc.

• You suffer from the effects of infidelity or betrayal. and many more

Certified and Expert Guidance

A certified sex therapist completes extensive education in anatomy, sexual development, cultural and societal influences, orientation, gender, and alternative expressions of sexuality. AASECT certification ensures rigorous clinical training under supervision. I bring this expertise to each session so clients feel confident they receive informed guidance for both emotional and sexual concerns.

Creating a Supportive Therapeutic Environment

Relationships evolve, and therapy must adapt as needs change. Sessions at Pleasure Matters provide tools to rebuild connection, improve communication, and strengthen sexual intimacy. I design sessions to align with the couple’s unique dynamic, and as myself present, guide partners to discuss challenging topics safely, making growth manageable and achievable.

Online Therapy Options

Couples who prefer the comfort of home or require flexible scheduling can benefit from online sessions. Virtual sessions provide the same depth and guidance as in-person meetings while removing barriers such as travel or social anxiety. I facilitate remote therapy sessions for emotional and sexual concerns, helping couples address desire differences, performance issues, or relational tension without compromising the quality of care.

Benefits of LGBTQ+ Couples Counseling

Engaging in LGBTQ+ therapy equips couples with skills to resolve conflicts, listen without judgment, and strengthen intimacy. Clients also learn to navigate external pressures such as family acceptance, societal expectations, and personal identity exploration. Therapy fosters emotional relief, deeper connection, and respect for each partner’s needs. I guide couples to cultivate confidence, compassion, and a healthy foundation for their relationship.

Steps in Couples Therapy and Sex Therapy

Initial Contact: Reach out via phone or website to schedule your first appointment.

Consultation Call

Discuss concerns, goals, and comfort with my approach.

Goal Setting

Establish realistic, individualized objectives.

First Session

Identify needs and vision of the desired relationship, and Identify Challenges that partners need to overcome.

Individual Sessions with Each Partner

Individual session with each partner to understand each person’s needs and concerns. This is with the intention to share these things openly and constructively with the partner later.

Therapy Sessions

Weekly sessions focus on communication, conflict management, intimacy, and emotional healing.

Ongoing Development

Maintain momentum with continued sessions as needed.

Progress Review

Periodically assess progress and adjust plans to sustain growth.

I ensure each session aligns with the couple’s specific needs while fostering a supportive environment for progress and understanding. Every couple has a unique story, so therapy paths are tailored. I remain a consistent presence, guiding partners toward healthier communication, deeper intimacy, and emotional fulfillment.

Support Rooted in Respect and Understanding

Pleasure Matters provides a positive, inclusive, and emotionally grounded space for all couples. I help partners navigate everyday friction, relational crossroads, or long-standing patterns. Therapy encourages honest conversation and actionable tools to restore emotional clarity and intimacy. LGBTQ+ and heterosexual couples alike benefit from sessions designed to foster respect, trust, and meaningful connection, ensuring that every relationship has the opportunity to thrive.

Frequently Asked Questions

Relationship challenges typically emerge gradually through miscommunication, mismatched expectations, or quiet emotional withdrawal. Sexual concerns can add pressure, and couples may avoid discussing them because of discomfort or shame. Many therapists limit attention to sexual wellbeing, leaving these issues unresolved. Being present in the session, I create a direct, compassionate space that encourages honesty and openness while addressing sensitive topics without embarrassment.
Traditional couples counseling focuses on communication, recurring disagreements, shared responsibilities, and emotional repair. While these aspects are important, they rarely resolve sexual disconnection. Sexual intimacy holds a unique place in romantic relationships, and it usually requires dedicated attention. I help couples understand both emotional and physical barriers, giving a complete picture of what supports long-term closeness and passion.
Sessions begin with exploring each partner’s history, concerns, and relationship goals. I create a structured plan that addresses emotional and sexual needs with practical steps. Activities may include communication exercises, intimacy-building assignments, or exploring beliefs that influence sexual satisfaction. I’m fully engaged in guiding the process, ensuring that progress feels attainable and sustainable rather than rushed.
Clients seek sex therapy for many reasons, including differences in desire, discomfort expressing sexual preferences, performance anxiety, or difficulty reaching orgasm. Some face age-related changes, compulsive behaviors, non-traditional sexual interests, or lingering hurt after betrayal. Others require guidance in navigating the effects of hormonal transitions. I work with couples and individuals to explore these issues in a supportive, judgment-free environment, myself involved where needed, ensuring clarity and progress.
Relationships carry histories, emotional baggage, and distinct patterns. My role as an LGBTQ+ therapist in Seattle involves careful listening, compassionate feedback, and guidance toward solutions that feel authentic to both partners. I focus on discovering the natural rhythm of the relationship rather than imposing standards. Myself actively support each session, I provide practical, hands-on strategies that encourage couples to flourish while staying true to themselves.